外教老师为什么招孩子喜欢？
外教老师为什么招孩子喜欢？
Why does the teacher teach the child to like?
夏令营结束，去机场接儿子，儿子因为要和外教老师分别，正情绪低落眼角带泪，而且不止儿子一人如此，我发现周围孩子，尤其是女孩子的眼圈，都是红红的，正对外教老师恋恋不舍地依依惜别。那个年轻的外教老师，更是不顾自身教师形象，张开双臂，搂着儿子等诸多同学，眼泪流得比学生还要稀里哗啦……
The end of the summer camp, go to the airport to meet his son, son because teachers and foreign teachers respectively, positive mood eyes with tears, and more than one son so I found around the children, especially girls eyes are red, foreign teachers are unable to part to parting don't. The young teacher, is the image of teachers regardless of their own, with open arms, hugging the son and other classmates, tears than students also splinters......
学校带队的老师，见了也忍不住感叹，现场跟我们这些家长吐槽：“这帮学生平时见了我们本校老师，有的恨不得还绕道走，可在夏令营里，见了外教老师却总是有说有笑，就连晚上都粘着外教老师不放，临别不舍得分开不说，还都个个伤心流泪……想想我们都教他们好几年，感情还比不上外教老师相处的短短半个月的深！
The school led the teacher to see, can not help but sigh, we live with these parents Tucao: "this help students see our school teacher usually, some wish also made a detour in the summer camp, see the teacher was always laughing and talking, even the night stick teachers on parting do not want to leave without saying, are all sad tears...... Think that we have taught them for several years, the feelings of the teacher than not to get along just half a month's deep!
一石激起千层浪，身边的家长也纷纷跟着应和。晨晨妈妈说：我儿子参加夏令营，碰到的每个老外教师，他都特别喜欢，他说平时交流，外教说得最多的不是学习而是如何玩，而且还身体力行带着你玩，比你所能想象的还要会玩，每次他玩得都好放松好开心的。外教老师给人的感觉就是，他是真的特别享受玩的乐趣。
A stone arouses thousand layer wave, the parents also have to follow the. Chen mother said: my son to participate in the summer camp, met every foreigner teacher, his special love, he said the usual foreign exchange, said most of the study but not how to play, but also personally take you to play, than you can imagine will play, every time he had a good relaxed happy the. The teacher gives a person the feeling is that he is really special to enjoy the fun of playing.
洋洋爸爸听了感慨道：可咱们的老师呢？潜意识里总有一日为师终身为父的想法，无形就拉开了距离和辈分，你想，老师老端着，孩子咋往跟前凑？难道自讨没趣？
Yang Yang dad listened to emotion way: but our teacher? The subconscious mind there is always a teacher for a day is a father for life idea, invisible it apart and seniority, you want to end a child, the old teacher, how to get him? Don't trouble?
我补充道：我儿子曾经告诉我，外教老师就没有师道尊严这种概念，他们的观念就是做真实的自我，我是学生的朋友，甚至是好朋友，我们是平等的，我不需要镇住你，只需要你喜欢我，我也喜欢你，而且，那种喜欢是哥们样的感觉，与身份年龄无关。
I added: my son told me that there is no such concept of teacher the teacher's dignity concept is, they do a real self, I am a student friend, even good friends, we are equal, I don't need to stop you, you only need to love me, I also like you, and that love is a man like, has nothing to do with the identity of the age.
带队老师解释说，我们也知道“亲其师信其道”，学校里就有外教老师，我也承认外教兴趣广泛，动手能力强，净出新花招，能博得孩子眼球，没老师的架子，能放低身段和孩子一起疯，特别注重人文性，培养孩子们思考和创新的方式，可是……
When the teacher explained, "we also know that the pro division the word", our school will have foreign teachers, I have to admit foreign interest, strong hands, net new tricks to win the child eye, not the teacher's shelf, can lower the figure and the children together, a special focus of humanity cultivate children, thinking and innovative ways, but......
这时，旁边听了许久的一个年轻老师，忍不住插言说：关键是体制内和体制外的区别，外教搞创新教学，周围不乏赞成和支持，即使偶有差池，学校和家长也都选择宽容谅解，换了国内教师，你试试？待遇绝对不可同日而语的！
At this time, next to listen to a young teacher for a long time, could not help saying: the key is inserted between the system and outside the system, teachers engage in innovation teaching, no lack of approval and support, even if the occasional mistake, the school and the parents also choose to forgive you, try for the domestic teachers? The treatment is absolutely cannot be mention in the same breath!
带队老师深有同感地说：主要还是高考关系到孩子的一生幸福，老师轻易不敢越雷池，只能选择循规蹈矩，成功还好，万一失败，无法面对殷殷期盼多年的家长和学生，所以，只能小心为上。我们的教师太循规守矩了，都不敢越雷池半步。
Led the teacher said sympathetically: the main entrance is relation to the child's life happiness, the teacher easily discouraged, can only choose too observant of conventional standards. success okay, in case of failure, unable to face the Yanyinqipan years of parents and students, therefore, can only be. Our teacher is too follow rules, dare not deviate.
遇到好老师的确是孩子一生的幸运，好老师就应该不阻碍每位学生的发展。其实，我们的老师都很敬业、任劳任怨，但我们总是忍不住把学生当成考试机器，忍不住把考高分当成是唯一目标，上课如果不讲那些死知识，就觉得对不起学生。在这点上，外教就没有如此的经历和压力，所以，孩子们才都喜欢放得开教学的外教。
Good teacher is really a child's life, good teachers should not hinder the development of each student. In fact, our teachers are very dedicated and hard working, but we always can not help the students as a test machine, could not resist the test scores as the only goal of the class, if you do not speak those dead knowledge, students feel sorry. At this point, the foreign teachers have no such experience and pressure, so, the children are like to put on the teaching of foreign teachers.
